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Thursday, August 09, 2007

Trip Update # 3

Just finished watching Marcus Buckingham (our fourth session of the day)...
I have seen Buckingham before and was extremely impressed by his leadership at such a young age - read more about him here. I have posted the audio mp3 files from that session (which is the same one from the Summit 07') right here - enjoy!

My notes are attached below ... go find your strengths!

Marcus Buckingham


"Build on my strengths and manage around my weaknesses"

BUST THE MYTHS

What stops us from becoming one of the two out of ten? Ourselves. What we believe often gets in our way and because we believe we do nothing to ensure our beliefs are the truth. Think about these myths and truths for a moment:

MYTH: As you grow your personality changes.
TRUTH: As you grow you become more of who you are.

MYTH: You will grow most in the area of your greatest weakness.
TRUTH: You will grow the most in the areas of your greatest strengths.

MYTH: A good team member does whatever it takes to help the team.
TRUTH: A good team member deliberately volunteers his/her strengths to the team most of the time.

Ask yourself:
How would it benefit me to believe the truths?
What would it change in my work or life?

GET CLEAR

Do you find it tough to articulate your strengths? Do you think they are best identified by others based on your results?

Buckingham states strengths can be identified by four "SIGNs":

Success: strengths are activities you are good at AND which fulfill you and sustain you in life.
Instinct: strengths have an I-can't-help-but- quality. You feel a pull toward these activities and look forward to doing them even when they scare you.
Growth: These are areas where you learn the most, come up with the most new ideas, and have the best insights. You feel inquisitive about this field of endeavor or activity, you want to learn more, practice, and refine your skill. When you are engaged in this activity you have focus.
Need: How you feel after you have completed this activity? Chances are you have that all-is-right-with-the-world feeling. Strengths make you feel strong.

It is this feeling that makes strength identification a very personal thing. No one else knows how you feel when doing something. You may do something wonderfully but loathe it. Hint: not a strength.

Here Buckingham introduced a simple yet powerful tool: the Strength Statement. Simple, not easy, it is a precise, specific-to-you statement detailing what makes you feel strong. It is a statement that moves you every time you read it. These Strength Statements are the guideposts for what you need to do more of on the job.

FREE YOUR STRENGTHS

Freeing your strengths entails doing more of what comes naturally to you. At work this sounds easier than it is as most of our work addresses the needs of someone or something other than ourselves. Buckingham suggests asking this question: How can I use my strengths to fulfill my customer's needs, meet or renegotiate the expectations of my boss and/or honor my career aspirations.

The Strong Week Plan
is the tool for this job. Again simple but powerful in its awareness building and planning aspects, the Strong Week Plan is used for reviewing the past week, predicting the coming week and identifying two specific actions to free your strengths in the coming seven days. Of course the catch is you. Will you do what you promised yourself?


I have personally learned and grown from Buckingham's leadership and strength sharpening tools - his books are practical and his principles are cross platform - whether you lead at church / business / school or at home! Go - Now find YOUR Sstrengths!

Trip Update #2

Session one at the Summit is over .. Bill Hybels was phenomenal - he has so much wisdom and experience - pure gold! Hybel's church ... Willow Creek - is one of the leading churches in the country in pretty much every area... every growing church in the country today should thank Hybels for his leadership and visioneering - here are my notes on his session:



VISION TO DIE FOR (OWNING THE VISION)
by Bill Hybels

A vision is the painting of a picture that produces passion in people - Hybels
A vision that is quickly projected may not be deeply owned - it takes time
A vision MUST be deeply owned
The world's most compelling vision is worthless if no one deeply owns it.
It's all about OWNERSHIP
People will pray, give to,value, promote and even die for a vision they own

PROCESS - pastors hate it - people need it!!


1. Vision Formation
---Sinai Approach - pastor alone retreats and reveals
---Team Approach - what does God want for our church to look like 5 years from now?
"People don't always have to have their way - they just need to have their way considered" - Hybels

2. Vision Refinement
---First Draft - team meets prays creates and roughs it out
---Subsequent Drafts - the wet cement presented to other specific groups (ask people what excites/discourages you?) allow them to give feedback - people feel valued

3. Vision Declaration -
---Solo Activity - preparation from visioneer to deliver vision is important - refining the delivery
---Team Activity -

Vision leaks ...
"Don't beat the Sheep out of your people!" - Hybels - we must help & remind our people

Celebrate Accomplishments - well told story telling people about the progress (videos)


Application ...
Are you willing to die for the vision God has called you to do ?
Are you a hireling or an owner of the vision?

Acts 21 (Paul's church in Ephesus - new vision from God to Paul - sending him to Jerusalem - Paul says yes and goes)
" I am ready not only to be bound for this vision but to die for this vision in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ" - Paul

Singles determining factor of followers owning the vision is the extent that they think that the leader owns it ! (ethos + 50,100,150 + one church where you are)

Leaders come to Christ (saved) + Leader gets Vision from God (inspired) + Then two options = Hireling vs Owners - which one will you choose?




Great first session.... glad to be here!

Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Trip Update #1

We've made it safe and sound to the Disney Hilton Resort in Orlando - sweet place. I am rooming with Cristian and Ricky - pretty interesting. As I type..Ricky is watching some talk show on Oxygen while Cristian is updating his profile on Christiansingles.com (pray for them) ;) - I just finished Video iChatting w/ my wife - gotta love our mac connection! Anyway .. below are some random pics from today (click on them to enlarge) - I'll be posting on the summit sessions tomorrow - see ya then.

...We found a store for people who cant get the iPhone...



...We also found the pope...



...Lili found her weak spot...



...and I found a chill spot...